I recently asked a burned-out manager what her company's top priority was. She rattled off three strategic pillars from the last all-hands. Then I asked what she had actually worked on that week. Completely different list. Finally I asked who got promoted last quarter. Someone who excelled at none of the above.
That is the misalignment trap, and it is costing organizations their best talent, their culture, and their strategy. It rarely shows up as a single bad decision. It shows up as a slow, quiet gap between the words on the wall and the behavior that actually gets people ahead. Your people are not confused by that gap. They read it correctly, and then they respond to it rationally.